Monday, February 13, 2012

House Hunting on Mallard Island LBI New Jersey

I don't know where the day goes.  We needed to get out of the house for a little fresh air.

Mallard Island 
Mallard Island Foot Bridge

I wonder how House Hunters would depict these three properties located on Mallard Island.


House No. 1

It has potential we could make it our own.  No walk in closets, but it does have a nice front porch.

House No. 2

I love all of the windows, the natural light, but the kitchen is a little outdated...wait a minute, is there a kitchen?
House No. 2 is way over our budget, but it does have two boats.  That could provide us with extra income to make up the difference.

House No. 3



It's a little small, but we could make it work.



And it does come with its own dock.
I guess this is the one
The location is perfect.  We could walk into town to get dinner at Blacky's Clams.



From an article in Philadelphia Magazine
"CLAMS   Backing up to the Barnegat Bay watershed, just across the bridge from LBI, the squall-and-salt-air-worn shack that’s home to Blacky’s Clams has wholesaled three, and only three, takeout items for as long as anyone can remember. Fresh and local littlenecks, topnecks and chowders represent five generations of the clamming Paul family’s trade. The only thing they sell but don’t harvest: lemons.  1128 East Bay Avenue, 609-597-4260."

Here is today's entry from Anna's diary:
Wed. February 13 1929
Club met at Elizabeth M's. Ash Wed. Had shrimp salad & Pie. Belleville Club met at night at Valerie B's. Forgot to bring my sewing.  Served a lovely spread.  Home 12.


Sunday, February 12, 2012

Mickey Mouse Ears at the Grammy Awards - A Mature Review

  • Tonight, I am watching the 54th Grammy Awards Show, hosted by LL Cool J.  Since I would rather listen to a book than music, I don't pay much attention to what's hot on iTunes.  Watching the annual Grammys is how I find out who is who.  I am going to critique the show, and the performers.  Well for as long as I stay awake that is. 
  •  Bruno Mars was the first act. I have heard the name, but have never seen him perform.  He was throughly entertaining.  I would buy his album.   
  • Next was Bonnie Rait and Alica Keys.  They did a tribute to Etta James.  I would download that one.  
  • They gave an award to Adele.  I don't know who she is but she has an English accent.  Yes I do live under a rock.
  • The next performer was Chris Brown.  I don't know his music and really didn't enjoy his performance.
  • Marc Antony and Fergie were the next presenters.  Best Rap Performance.  JZ &  Kayne West for "Otis".
  • Reba is up next to introduce Jason Aldean and Kelly Clarkson singing  "Don't You Want To Stay".  I like Kelly Clarkson, never heard of Jason Aldean.   Their duet was okay, wouldn't download it.
  • Great Target Commercial! Alouette 
  • Jack Black introduces Foo Fighters - Who? Too much guitar and I couldn't understand the words that the singer was screaming.  I guess it's what's called Hard Rock, Heavy Metal?
  • Rihanna and Cold Play perform.   She is lying on the stage singing.  I don't get it.  Okay she is up and working it out.  I think she is saying " We found love in a hopeless place?"
  • Chris Martin from Cold Play with Rihanna sing "Princess of China" then 
  • Cold Play band perform "Paradise" - Nope not a fan of either. 
  • NCIS's Paulie Perrett and Giants Mario Mannhingham & Victor Cruz present best rock performance "Walk" by the foo fighters.
  • Commercial featuring Willie Nelson who performs the "The Scientist" the soundtrack from the short film entitled "Back to the Start". If you download the song on iTunes, the proceeds benefit the Chipotle Cultivate Foundation.
  • Ryan Seacrest introduce Maroon 5 celebrating the beach boys "Surfer Girl" & Foster The People "Wouldn't it Be Nice".  I kinda liked Foster The People.
  • The Beach Boys sing "Good Vibrations" Gosh they are old.
  • Stevie Wonder introduces Paul McCartney, someone else & Joe Walsh - the song is "My Valentine".
  • Didn't get the names of the presenters but the  Best R&B Album - Chris Brown.
  • The Civil Wars ????  Had to google - duo of Joy Williams and John Paul White.
  • Taylor Swift sings "Mean"  Was this about Kayne West?
  • Funny McDonald's Ad about some old dudes trying to pick up a woman.
  • Neil Patrick Harris Presents  Song of the Year to Paul Epworth Producer and singer Adele Atkins for "Rolling in the Deep".
  • Kate Beckinsale and LL Cool J introduce Katie Perry - performs "Part of Me". Over produced, too Lady GaGa for me. 
  • Miranda Lambert &  Dierks Bentely present Best Country Album  to Lady Antebellum. I've heard of Lady Antebellum, but don't know who Lambert and Bentely are.
  • Gweneth Paltrow introduces Adele she sings "Rolling In the Deep" She got quite an ovation, Adele, that is. 
  • Taylor Swift- Tribute to Glen Campbell The band Perry performs "Gentle on my Mind".
  • Blake Shelton sings "Southern Nights".
  • Glen Campbell has Alzheimer's. He sings "Rhinestone Cowboy".  That was touching.
  • Carrie Underwood is joined by Tony Bennett to sing a duet "It Had To Be You." You go Tony.  
  • The best new artist Boniver - really never heard of him.
  • The president of the Grammys -  tribute to those who died this year.
  • Jennifer Hudson pays tribute to Whitney Houston.
  • Tribute to Don Cornelius With today's version of dance music. Foo Fighters and Chris Brown.  Guess I haven't been dancing lately.  "Let's do the Twist." "Anyone?" This "dancing" looks like all they are doing is jumping up and down.   I guess there isn't much difference between twisting back and forth and jumping up and down.
  • Okay now there is a Mickey Mouse head, hey why is everyone wearing mouse ears?  Wow I don't get it!  I am so out of touch.
  • Drake introduces  Niki Minaj  An exorcism? Stained glass windows, church, she is in manacles. I thought today's dance music was a little out there.  This is way too weird for me.  I guess it is supposed to be irreverent?  The song is "Roman Holiday"????
  • Lady Antebelium presents record of the year.  "Rolling in the Deep" by Adele
  • Dina Ross presents the album of the year "21" by Adele.
So after watching the Grammy Awards, I remember why I don't have any music on my iPod.  I'd rather listen to a good book.
But if anyone has a few recommendations I would be willing to listen.

Here is today's entry from Anna's diary:
Tues February 12 1929
Lincoln's birthday. Jean half day. Jewel Marie home. Brought Junior there. Went to N. York with Edythe.  I bought two new black dresses.  Home evening. Heard Phil Armand over radio.
[She may have been referring to Phil Armand  - Phillip Armand Hamilton Gibbs an English Journalist and Novelist]

    Saturday, February 11, 2012

    My Heavy Heart is With You Tonight Uncle

         I have a heavy heart tonight as Uncle is in critical condition.  I wrote about him in a post a few weeks ago.
         Dealing with a cancer diagnosis is extremely difficult.  Dealing with the medical profession is almost just as difficult.
         I was horrified as my Aunt relayed this morning's events to me.
         First a little background.
         On January 27,  the results from a blood test that Uncle had the day before, showed that his sodium count was dangerously low.  He was weak and unresponsive.   My aunt called Uncle's Oncologist.  On his recommendation she called 911 and Uncle was taken by ambulance to the emergency room of our local hospital.
         The emergency room was filled to capacity that afternoon.  Every cubical was filled.  Patients were lined up on gurneys in the hallway.  Every chair in the waiting room was taken.
         I understand that unless a patient displays life-threatening symptoms, care has to be administered on a first come first serve basis.  I also understand that the goal of the emergency room doctors and nurses is to treat people and then release them as quickly as possible to make room for the next patient.
        For example, the woman in the cube next to Uncle had apparently been there for a couple of hours.  Once her condition had been diagnosed and treated, she was told by the nurse that she was going to be released.  The woman complained to the nurse that she was still in pain.  The nurse explained to the woman that since the doctor had given her a prescription for pain medication and for an antibiotic, there was no further treatment that they could offer her.  She was then advised to follow up with her own physician.
         Apparently, the woman had been transported to the hospital by ambulance.  She did not have a phone.  I heard her ask another patient if she could borrow her cell phone.  The woman was unable to get in touch with her husband and did not have a way to get home.  The nurse told her to get dressed and informed her that there was a phone in the waiting room that she could use.  Within less than a minute after the woman left, the room was occupied by the next victim patient.
         My uncle has stage IV pancreatic cancer.  My aunt, of course, told the emergency room staff of his condition.  He was in a great deal of pain.  He had been treated and diagnosed  in that same hospital only days before.  However, the emergency room doctor (who looked like he was 12 years old) would not administer any pain medication until they ran a battery of tests.  Blood tests, CT scans, EKG's and X-rays.  Why?  Why were any of these tests necessary?
         When the results of the tests finally came back, the doctor came into the cubical.  He told my aunt that there was no evidence of a heart attack (huh?) no evidence of pancreatitis, (what?) and that my uncle probably had indigestion.  He gave him an antacid to drink and wanted to send him on his way.  I am not making this up.  I was standing right there.
         My aunt told Dr. ER that Uncle's doctor wanted him to be admitted. Dr. ER. said "Why?" My aunt told Dr. ER about Uncle's sodium count, which I am sure she had also told more than one member of the ER staff multiple times.  Dr. ER said, "That didn't show up in any of the test results."  My aunt insisted that Dr. ER call Uncle's doctor.  Dr. ER agreed and to do that and left the cubicle.
         Not more than a minute later,  a nurse came in with an IV kit.  She told my aunt that Uncle was going to be admitted.  She said that according to the blood test results, Uncle's sodium count was dangerously low.  Why did the nurse know this but Dr. ER did not?
         I understand that the goal of hospitals these days is to treat patients and then release them as soon as possible.  The goal for Uncle was to stabilize him, get his sodium levels up, and try to build up his strength so that he could start a regiment of chemo therapy.
         Five days after he was admitted into the hospital, Uncle was told that he no longer needed their care and that he would have to go to a rehab facility.  The rehab that he would be admitted to is across the street from the hospital.  The criteria my aunt and uncle's insurance company uses to determine if he would be eligible for transportation from the hospital to the rehab and then back to the hospital for chemo is this:  "Is the patient able to sit in a chair?"  The nurses and aids were able to get him out of the bed and into a chair, so I guess that qualifies as a yes.
    Next, "Is the patient able to walk 80 feet?" A nurse and an aid were able to get my uncle up out of the chair.  With the help of walker, the nurse and the aid, he was able to walk 80 feet.  So I guess the answer to question no. 2 was yes also.
         The problem, though, is that my 72 year old aunt, even though she is in great shape, would not be able to get him up and walking,  then into her car, then out of the car, then into the rehab center.   Even though the rehab center is right across the street from the hospital,  it is going to cost my aunt and uncle $107.00 because the insurance company will not pay for the transport.
         Back to today's horrible events.
         My aunt received a phone call from the rehab center at 3:00 this morning.  My uncle was calling for her.
    The nurse at the rehab told my aunt that they could administer a tranquilizer or he could go over to the hospital.  When my aunt got to the rehab and asked Uncle what he wanted to do, he said he wanted to go to the hospital.
         As my aunt described the next course of events to me, I felt sick to my stomach and my heart ached for Uncle and my aunt.
         When they got Uncle to the hospital my aunt said that he screamed in pain for three hours.  The on call hospital doctor would not administer any pain medications because Uncle's blood pressure was dangerously low and the doctor was afraid that the pain meds would make his BP go even lower.    My aunt insisted that they get in touch with Uncle's doctor, which they finally they did.  Uncle's doctor instructed the hospital staff on how to raise Uncle's BP.  In a matter of a half hour, they were finally able to give him pain medication and make him comfortable.
        Tomorrow he is going to be admitted to the Hospice wing of the hospital.  But today, while he was still in the CCU, the doctors wanted to do another CT scan.  Again I ask WHY???
    Are they padding the bill? Is it CYA?  Or is it both?
         My heart is heavy tonight. I know, though, that if Uncle makes it through the night, the dedicated and caring Hospice staff will make sure that Uncle does not suffer needlessly. They will make sure there that he is comfortable and that there is no pain.  After all isn't that the kind and humane way to treat Uncle?

    Here is today's entry from Anna's Diary:

    Monday February 11 1929
    Home until two.  Went to Belleville Ave for baby's new shoes at Murdoch's. Brown one for $5. Elsie and Minnie came. Had tea at my house with strawberry tarts.  Home all evening.  Radio good.

    [J. T. MurdochThe business was established by J.T. Murdoch, Sr. in 1888. It is currently owned and operated by the fourth generation of Murdochs.]

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